Dating A Very Good Looking Person? Get A Handle On Your Insecurity
I’d bet my bottom dollar that Brangelina doesn’t have this problem! Let’s face it, both Angelina and Brad are exceptionally good looking people. They have the votes from magazines and gossip websites around the world to prove it.
Even if they were single, they would have more than enough suitors after them and would have it easy and may not have to consider internet dating as a resource unless they chose to do so.
It’s only natural that two good looking people will grab people’s attention. But what about when you’re the one who is dating a really good looking companion? Would you be able to handle it? If it’s happened to you already, did it go well?
I’m an average looking gal. My friends describe me as “cute in a girl next door kinda way”. And most of the men I’ve dated are average looking as well, with one exception. This guy was so good looking I sometimes wondered what the heck he was doing with me! Women and men both drooled over this guy’s appearance.
And that was the issue; they looked at him and not at me. I was to insecure to date someone so good looking and we didn’t date for long. Though I was sad when we stopped dating (he was a nice enough guy), I was happy that the relationship was over and I didn’t have to feel jealous every time we went out.
In retrospect his looks should not have been the important part of the relationship. He, like so many others, was just looking for someone to love, and he liked me for me. I was the problem; or rather my attitude. I’d found the guy with the movie star looks, but now I didn’t know what to do with him. I was unable to just enjoy the moment, which was too bad because he was a fun guy and full of practical jokes.
As I have grown older, I realize how silly I was then and that looks don’t really matter. It is the first thing that we see when meeting someone but once you talk the personality and things you have in common are going to be the things that take you to the next level.
Well life has given me a second chance. I’m currently seeing someone even better looking than before (who knew that it was even possible?). Now when we hold hands in public and the ladies swoon, I smile, and mean it. My guy is as handsome in the inside as he is on the outside. And I’m secure enough in my own strengths that his looks just aren’t an issue.
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